tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7758570882310139920.post5356391537708434542..comments2024-03-01T09:52:27.297-06:00Comments on Non-Stop Mom: Our Day in CourtNon-Stop Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11019977789459727121noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7758570882310139920.post-56791144634008734242011-10-30T14:34:04.666-05:002011-10-30T14:34:04.666-05:00Amy, that is wonderful!!!
DebiAmy, that is wonderful!!!<br /><br />DebiAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7758570882310139920.post-87605490423057508962011-10-26T20:03:37.121-05:002011-10-26T20:03:37.121-05:00Interesting comment about saying things about his ...Interesting comment about saying things about his fathers family in your last post. I must have missed that part. Though, inbreds often have reading and comprehension. <br />BAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7758570882310139920.post-29912024129064925412011-10-26T19:35:34.019-05:002011-10-26T19:35:34.019-05:00It is clear that you need to continue to say negat...It is clear that you need to continue to say negative things about his father's family in order to feel good about yourself.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7758570882310139920.post-18225771759975270302011-09-03T23:42:29.135-05:002011-09-03T23:42:29.135-05:00Thanks again, everyone! I really appreciate it!
H...Thanks again, everyone! I really appreciate it!<br /><br />He's been practicing his new name - and he loves to say it! It's so stinkin' cute! Of course, he doesn't really understand what it all means, but he will someday. The older kids all think that it's great and are very happy with it.<br /><br />His father's name will always be on his birth certificate - there's no removing that, as even I don't think that's right. But at least now we don't have a constant daily reminder of the bad things that happened in the past. I got to sign his new name today for the first time in the guestbook at the art show, and it was a really really good feeling!Non-Stop Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11019977789459727121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7758570882310139920.post-23508353263127624362011-09-03T20:19:51.452-05:002011-09-03T20:19:51.452-05:00Hey girl. Haven't been around much - but I'...Hey girl. Haven't been around much - but I'm thrilled that you did that. Leave the judgement to God for all those who have something negative to say. A legacy is a legacy - and I love that you gave him yours. Great job.Kristenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16225291652604462660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7758570882310139920.post-11567234898436941572011-09-03T12:36:30.654-05:002011-09-03T12:36:30.654-05:00NEED I SAY MORE? DITTO TO EACH COMMENT. YOU DID T...NEED I SAY MORE? DITTO TO EACH COMMENT. YOU DID THE RIGHT THING. SORRY OTHER FAMILY BUT SHE DID WHAT WAS BEST FOR THIS BOY. HUG TO DANIEL. YOUR A MAN NOW. WEAR THE NAME PROUDLY.<br /><br />GRANNYAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7758570882310139920.post-8297834495711235622011-09-03T05:46:46.879-05:002011-09-03T05:46:46.879-05:00I always wonder what it would be like to have my m...I always wonder what it would be like to have my mom's last name. Especially since I found out (after applying for disability) that I originally WAS named with her last name (since my parents weren't married, I guess?).<br /><br />Anyway, I know you did this out of sheer love for your son, and you can never go wrong in that. Congrats! =)Adrian W.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06636516340918974103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7758570882310139920.post-12219610239381195342011-09-03T02:48:35.961-05:002011-09-03T02:48:35.961-05:00100% thumbs up from the VA peeps.
B100% thumbs up from the VA peeps.<br />BAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7758570882310139920.post-77778691895834241132011-09-02T22:27:09.938-05:002011-09-02T22:27:09.938-05:00Thanks Kateri! I'm happy too!Thanks Kateri! I'm happy too!Non-Stop Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11019977789459727121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7758570882310139920.post-47259226601603001002011-09-02T20:13:33.485-05:002011-09-02T20:13:33.485-05:00YAY! Good for you!!! This makes me happy!YAY! Good for you!!! This makes me happy!Kateri Von Stealhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05168871921423248029noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7758570882310139920.post-75620835047293205762011-09-02T19:32:18.074-05:002011-09-02T19:32:18.074-05:00Thank you for the support, everyone! I really appr...Thank you for the support, everyone! I really appreciate it!Non-Stop Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11019977789459727121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7758570882310139920.post-9597527802534705422011-09-02T18:11:52.862-05:002011-09-02T18:11:52.862-05:00Good for you Mom! When my oldest son was born, I ...Good for you Mom! When my oldest son was born, I was not married to his father, but gave him his father's last name as we were in a relationship, etc. I never regretted it, even when his father walked out on us. When I married my husband, his father would not allow me to change his last name to match mine. My husband and I have 5 children together, and my oldest always felt left out because he had a different name, but was proud to have his dad's. His father dropped out of his life a few years ago and degraded to the point where I had his parental rights revoked. I was able to change his name, like you put it, to match the family who loves him and is always there for him. Forever.<br /><br />Congrats to you and Daniel! :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7758570882310139920.post-77920217796684991892011-09-02T17:13:32.264-05:002011-09-02T17:13:32.264-05:00This is FANTASTIC...so wonderful of you to think o...This is FANTASTIC...so wonderful of you to think of doing this (seemingly) controversial act for your son...It will be something that will make him feel even more tied in to his family and with the *first* three having the same name and *you* three having the same name the symmetry of it will seem absolutely perfect...and complete.<br />Said it before, I'll say it again...you are great (no, I didn't say perfect as none of us are) super duper wonderful caring loving (etc etc etc on and on forever) mom!<br />congratulations Daniel! (give that great mommy an extra tight hug...you got a winner in her little man!)<br />maremarejohnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03903554421867897659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7758570882310139920.post-13687200125890367352011-09-02T16:31:32.911-05:002011-09-02T16:31:32.911-05:00The rules here were pretty straightforward. If you...The rules here were pretty straightforward. If you want to change the child's name to either the father's name or the mother's maiden name, you fill out this ridiculously easy form and both parents have to sign it. If you want to change it to some other name, then you have to have an attorney and stuff. The judge just basically reviewed it, signed it, and the clerk stamped it. Boom. Done.<br /><br />In my case, since his father passed away, I just had to have a copy of the death certificate.Non-Stop Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11019977789459727121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7758570882310139920.post-54979077440275937232011-09-02T16:28:22.195-05:002011-09-02T16:28:22.195-05:00I wonder if I could do this for Dylan and Piper, o...I wonder if I could do this for Dylan and Piper, or if I have to have permission from Jason....Heather Reesehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07239360061592826121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7758570882310139920.post-91934222910390238422011-09-02T15:48:04.939-05:002011-09-02T15:48:04.939-05:00LOL you almost got the first one, Rose! :)LOL you almost got the first one, Rose! :)Non-Stop Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11019977789459727121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7758570882310139920.post-42857344023453666402011-09-02T15:43:28.137-05:002011-09-02T15:43:28.137-05:00Since I am posting the first comment, hopefully it...Since I am posting the first comment, hopefully it will set the tone for others, who may not know what tact is. <br />I think you made a wonderful decision and I think that your little one should have the name of those who love him, and care for him. Why carry on the name and "legacy" of a family who does nothing for you? Since you and your family are the only ones involved in his life, they you have the ultimate right to choose. They don't participate in his life then they have no business telling you what to name your son. <br />Good for you girl :)Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01802495344247995594noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7758570882310139920.post-22871715074216258282011-09-02T15:38:49.984-05:002011-09-02T15:38:49.984-05:00WOO HOO!!!!!!!!! YAY!!!!!!! I knew it! I was righ...WOO HOO!!!!!!!!! YAY!!!!!!! I knew it! I was right! I am SO SO SO SO SO SO stinking happy for you!!! Daniel deserves to have a last name that will be strong, and the new one is definitely that! I love you girl! I am so going to call you for a catch up session this weekend!!!! I miss you!1stTimeMamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00858117370952836131noreply@blogger.com